This article spoke on the importance of sex education of children. Cases of the more premarital sex. That's
what we encountered with the team in providing counseling services in
the office and after giving a seminar in various cities. Particularly in schools. What is wrong?
In addition indicates a problem within the family system, especially for adolescents, premarital sex showed poor information (education) is obtained through the child's parents. Of course, parents can not expect much if any information about sex is given when the child was a teenager; especially if they begin to recognize the opposite sex or dating.
Explanation or education about sexuality from an early age children should be given, ie, when the child begins to wonder about her. Do not be late dong!To that end, parents need to build a fun atmosphere for children to discuss. In addition to consciously use every opportunity to give an explanation, little by little, within the meaning of our children. When families eat together, watch TV or on the road with the kids to school.The role of fathersThe family is where children learn to be a husband, wife, and parents. One should learn a boy is to appreciate and respect women. Likewise, for our daughter. He should be able to carry themselves with courtesy and dignity, and not easily fall in premarital sexual relations.Parents should ensure that youth have a sense of "my self worth". Sense of self-worth is derived from feeling safe and loved is derived from a healthy bond with parents (self image), especially the father, which was built as a baby. In addition of course the spiritual experience (self concept). The children knew that he was so expensive or precious in the eyes of God and his parents.The boy is a duplicate of his father. Embedding the heroic qualities in the person of a boy starts with how a father behave towards their mother. Children of women who received enough love from their father, Umbar mengubar not easy to love any man in the vicinity. He had enough love and attention of the best men in her life today, namely his father.Psychological Science study found that the father is very big role in fostering a sense of keberhargaan in the child, whether male or female. Children who ignored his father had an emotional block three times more than those who lack a mother's love. No wonder the Bible is full of God's word and guidance for fathers. God gave a big role in a father in the family.When our children are teenagers (between 10-11 years old), as my father had planted the importance of honoring mothers and appreciating women. We also train the children to learn to appreciate each other in marriage through the relation between the two of us as a father and their mother. We want to affirm the values that we have to say to them. We hope, as men, our sons understand the complexity of a woman, wife and mother. My father also played an important role in Shaping Character Daughter SexPremarital sexual relationsWhy is a pregnancy outside of marriage? One of these is the indiscriminate attitude shown towards opposite sex, both men and women. Therefore, it is better young men understand the psychological effect would be experienced by her boyfriend when they do things forbidden. Son of man must learn to control their sexual hormones. While girls aware of the consequences of early sexual relations, including those occurring outside of marriage. Thus it take to fortify their knowledge.Three years ago, we talked about this with our children one morning. They were eating breakfast. At that time her mother's hands there is a daily children's COMPASS. Content of the news about some high school students who did not participate UASBN. In one small town alone account for 16 people. The cause is pregnancy out of wedlock."If sexual intercourse outside of marriage, no commitment and responsibility in it," said the wife. "It's arbitrary behavior. Hence God to protect women and men in marriage. People who are ready to get married will have responsibilities and commitments. We've got you, two teenage boys. You're smart, handsome, and fun. You do not apply at random on a female friend. Mama you are female, you know! "Said local time."Ah, my girlfriends all the naughty!" Moze said that while it was 11 years old. He took the plate and his glass to the kitchen."I'd like Ngata-ngatain, 'said his brother was 15 years old. We also laughing, shouting "Come on do not be late for school!"Although we seem to talk about this in passing, we want to use every moment of our lives to share the important things about the wedding on our children. They can not possibly understand it only in a single conversation. Necessary repetitions, until they make a living value.Another thing that needs to be understood by young people associated with premarital sex is a danger of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Most teenage girls worry about aspects of her pregnancy. In fact, this is more dangerous. Some diseases are not immediately visible.Someone takes 15-20 years to get caught, and if during that time the patient had sex with different partners, she has infected all sexual partners. After finally youth and adolescents is becoming a good marriage, it turns out the couple can not have children. Could be, it is due to premarital sexual relations he had done as a teenager.Outside of marriage, men, after the seed implant in the womb of woman, can not be held responsible. They may go away. If a pregnancy is usually the women who noisily demanded marriage. But forced marriages like this, generally does not end well.Women (perhaps also her partner) would feel guilty. If she is pregnant, she should keep her fetus (aborted if he can be sued to kill), then she gave birth with pain. He is also caring for her baby or give her child adopted. Imagine if no one was with her husband. Especially if you have to give birth in a shelter, because parents can not accept her pregnancy. What a miserable and suffering from this situation!If you alreadyFamilies need to develop a flexible attitude (adaptability) and forgiveness. This attitude is needed in dealing with various problems that may not previously suspected. As a system, there seemed to be fixed in a family that cause our children to fall in premarital sex. Parents also need to look at the role (contribution to) them in the event.No teenagers or young men who do not feel guilty after having sex before marriage. Maybe they need advice, but more than that, they need acceptance and understanding parents. We propose that the openness of the family there is help for this couple.Weddings are performed solely because of embarrassment or to avoid shame, is not always a good way out. Guilt requires parental forgiveness. Then if they intend to marry, premarital counseling needs to be lived in the right way.May be useful
In addition indicates a problem within the family system, especially for adolescents, premarital sex showed poor information (education) is obtained through the child's parents. Of course, parents can not expect much if any information about sex is given when the child was a teenager; especially if they begin to recognize the opposite sex or dating.
Explanation or education about sexuality from an early age children should be given, ie, when the child begins to wonder about her. Do not be late dong!To that end, parents need to build a fun atmosphere for children to discuss. In addition to consciously use every opportunity to give an explanation, little by little, within the meaning of our children. When families eat together, watch TV or on the road with the kids to school.The role of fathersThe family is where children learn to be a husband, wife, and parents. One should learn a boy is to appreciate and respect women. Likewise, for our daughter. He should be able to carry themselves with courtesy and dignity, and not easily fall in premarital sexual relations.Parents should ensure that youth have a sense of "my self worth". Sense of self-worth is derived from feeling safe and loved is derived from a healthy bond with parents (self image), especially the father, which was built as a baby. In addition of course the spiritual experience (self concept). The children knew that he was so expensive or precious in the eyes of God and his parents.The boy is a duplicate of his father. Embedding the heroic qualities in the person of a boy starts with how a father behave towards their mother. Children of women who received enough love from their father, Umbar mengubar not easy to love any man in the vicinity. He had enough love and attention of the best men in her life today, namely his father.Psychological Science study found that the father is very big role in fostering a sense of keberhargaan in the child, whether male or female. Children who ignored his father had an emotional block three times more than those who lack a mother's love. No wonder the Bible is full of God's word and guidance for fathers. God gave a big role in a father in the family.When our children are teenagers (between 10-11 years old), as my father had planted the importance of honoring mothers and appreciating women. We also train the children to learn to appreciate each other in marriage through the relation between the two of us as a father and their mother. We want to affirm the values that we have to say to them. We hope, as men, our sons understand the complexity of a woman, wife and mother. My father also played an important role in Shaping Character Daughter SexPremarital sexual relationsWhy is a pregnancy outside of marriage? One of these is the indiscriminate attitude shown towards opposite sex, both men and women. Therefore, it is better young men understand the psychological effect would be experienced by her boyfriend when they do things forbidden. Son of man must learn to control their sexual hormones. While girls aware of the consequences of early sexual relations, including those occurring outside of marriage. Thus it take to fortify their knowledge.Three years ago, we talked about this with our children one morning. They were eating breakfast. At that time her mother's hands there is a daily children's COMPASS. Content of the news about some high school students who did not participate UASBN. In one small town alone account for 16 people. The cause is pregnancy out of wedlock."If sexual intercourse outside of marriage, no commitment and responsibility in it," said the wife. "It's arbitrary behavior. Hence God to protect women and men in marriage. People who are ready to get married will have responsibilities and commitments. We've got you, two teenage boys. You're smart, handsome, and fun. You do not apply at random on a female friend. Mama you are female, you know! "Said local time."Ah, my girlfriends all the naughty!" Moze said that while it was 11 years old. He took the plate and his glass to the kitchen."I'd like Ngata-ngatain, 'said his brother was 15 years old. We also laughing, shouting "Come on do not be late for school!"Although we seem to talk about this in passing, we want to use every moment of our lives to share the important things about the wedding on our children. They can not possibly understand it only in a single conversation. Necessary repetitions, until they make a living value.Another thing that needs to be understood by young people associated with premarital sex is a danger of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Most teenage girls worry about aspects of her pregnancy. In fact, this is more dangerous. Some diseases are not immediately visible.Someone takes 15-20 years to get caught, and if during that time the patient had sex with different partners, she has infected all sexual partners. After finally youth and adolescents is becoming a good marriage, it turns out the couple can not have children. Could be, it is due to premarital sexual relations he had done as a teenager.Outside of marriage, men, after the seed implant in the womb of woman, can not be held responsible. They may go away. If a pregnancy is usually the women who noisily demanded marriage. But forced marriages like this, generally does not end well.Women (perhaps also her partner) would feel guilty. If she is pregnant, she should keep her fetus (aborted if he can be sued to kill), then she gave birth with pain. He is also caring for her baby or give her child adopted. Imagine if no one was with her husband. Especially if you have to give birth in a shelter, because parents can not accept her pregnancy. What a miserable and suffering from this situation!If you alreadyFamilies need to develop a flexible attitude (adaptability) and forgiveness. This attitude is needed in dealing with various problems that may not previously suspected. As a system, there seemed to be fixed in a family that cause our children to fall in premarital sex. Parents also need to look at the role (contribution to) them in the event.No teenagers or young men who do not feel guilty after having sex before marriage. Maybe they need advice, but more than that, they need acceptance and understanding parents. We propose that the openness of the family there is help for this couple.Weddings are performed solely because of embarrassment or to avoid shame, is not always a good way out. Guilt requires parental forgiveness. Then if they intend to marry, premarital counseling needs to be lived in the right way.May be useful
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