sex too often make you impotent

Sex is ideally spontaneous, but sometimes the schedule needs to be adjusted to the cycle of fertility, especially when you're wanting the pregnancy. The important thing is do not be too rigid, because the discipline that can make even belebihan impotent.

Scheduling is often done by having sex couples having children. Sometimes the frequency is reduced, with the best sperm quality expectations may be issued at the time the women were in the most fertile period.

However, scheduling is often caused stress on the part of men, who sometimes felt too restricted distribution of sexual desire. The stress that comes from too disciplined to obey the schedule could lead to permanent impotence proved.

Recent studies in the Journal of Andrology prove that 4 out of 10 men experience impotence or erectile dysfunction because of stress when I had to keep a schedule that is too tight to make love. This figure is quite large, so the doctors are asked to be careful when giving advice to patients.

"Stress that arise from thinking about sex is over-regulated or mandatory nature of sexual behavior can lead to erectile dysfunction in men," the scientists wrote in the journal, as quoted by The Independent on Sunday (5/20/2012).

In this study, the scientists make observations of the 400 men who are following the program scheduling sex in order to have children. Observations made submarine 6 months and all participants had no previous history of impotence.

Observations indicate, the majority of participants had increased levels of cortisol or stress hormones. Previous theories that say that the increase in the hormone cortisol can lead to erectile dysfunction, also proved in this study.

Lighted lamps make Passion Sex Woman missing

Desire to have sex can suddenly go out because of trivial matters. Before plagued with problems, you need to identify the cause.

Sex becomes an important part of married couples. Not only in satisfying biological needs, but also the intimacy of the relationship glue. Unfortunately, these crucial agendas often disrupted because of some minor errors. The following recognize the cause, as reported by the Indian Sutras.

phone

Incoming phone calls during sex will be very annoying and deadly passion partner. Most couples complain that telephone calls to their passion killer. Therefore, it is very important to distance phone during sex session took place.

Talking excessively mischievous

Speaking in his capacity to make a naughty sex session more lively. Unfortunately, when the context is too broad and too much conversation, it can actually kill your sex drive you both in a matter of seconds.

Forgot to turn off the lights

Women hate making love when the light is on. The reason, they were embarrassed to be seen naked. Therefore, make love in dark conditions actually increase the intimacy and wildness for women.

empty mind

If this happens, your sex drive disappeared instantly. The couple is not necessarily like it. Before you get a scolding from a partner, say the first couple of things. Politely express your concerns in no mood to make love tonight. This explanation is important so he does not hurt emotionally, as well as keeping your relationships remain harmonious.

Dismantling 4 Facts About Oral Sex

There are many variations and positions as sexual intercourse, oral sex may be one of them. Oral sex is sex with a variety stimulated through the mouth and tongue in the sex organs or sex partner.

There's nothing wrong with oral sex, what more if done by mutual agreement of both parties and fun. However, before having sex on this one, it would not hurt if you know the facts behind what you have oral sex following:

1. Almost every living thing on your genitals can live in the mouth or the back of the throat.

Why? Due to the oral environment resembling genitalia (warm, dark, damp). These conditions may put you at the same risk for sexually transmitted diseases. It is true that risk when you do a vaginal and anal penetration is much greater. But in theory, all sexually transmitted infections can be transmitted through oral sex.

2. Perform oral sex when you have cold sores, herpes can spread to the genitals.

Cold sores are fluid-filled sores caused by herpes simplex virus infection type 1. Cold sores occur mostly in the area around the lips. There are two strains of herpes: simplex type 1, preferred to live in the mouth and simplex type 2, prefer to stay in the genitals. But this does not mean that simplex virus type 1 can not be transmitted to the genitals, and vice versa. Herpes can be transmitted a few days before symptoms appear. So, when your partner is experiencing tingling and itching caused by cold sores, they can still transmit the infection.

3. Bacterial infections can be life in the back of the throat and almost did not show any symptoms.

Bacteria such as Chlamydia and gonorrhea can live in the back of the throat, and the most common symptom is just a sore throat. Chlamydia bacterial infection of the throat will not mutate into genital Chlamydia. But, if it is not treated, over time the bacteria can spread to the lungs and cause pneumonia.

4. Bacteria living in the pre-cum (sperm that comes out before ejaculation).

Pre-cum or commonly known as pre-ejaculatory fluid is a discharge of oil from a man's penis when he was aroused. It is intended to clean and prepare the penile urethra for ejaculation. But the same bacteria that live in the ejaculate can also live in the pre-cum (pre ejaculation).

Remember: The point is, when you and your partner perform oral sex on a penis, use a condom (now available a wide selection of flavors) and when performing oral sex on a vagina, can use a dental dam.

Dental dams are rectangular sheets of latex used in dentistry, for a particular endodontic therapy, while reducing contamination. This tool can also be used as a technique of safe sex during sexual activity like oral sex.

Use of protective equipment (condoms) when performing oral sex does not mean that you do not trust their partners. Instead you use a safety, you really have to respect and protect your partner.

Not Just Fat Grafting for Breast, Mr P also could

Move the fat in the abdomen through a technique of fat grafting or fat grafting is quite often done by women to enlarge their breasts. In males, the same technique is also often done to enlarge the penis size.

One plastic surgeon who frequently use the technique of fat grafts to enlarge the penis is Dr Roberto Viel. Doctor who runs a plastic surgery clinic in Harley Street, England was admitted to serve 200 or penoplasty penis surgery each year.

The technique is exactly the same as fat grafts to enlarge the breasts, namely to extract excess fat from other parts of the body such as abdomen. Extract the fat is then processed, and then injected under the skin surface at the top of the pubic bagaina.

Not all fat is injected at one time, most kept in the refrigerator for when the fat is injected back to the first injection was reabsorbed by the body. Re-absorption of the injected fat also occurs in the fat grafts from the abdomen to payduara.

"No one was willing to take risks. I myself will not be naive and stupid enough to risk the good name of the procedure if it is not safe," said Dr Viel ensure the safety of this procedure, as quoted by The Independent, Friday (18/5 / 2012).

For matters of graft-fat grafting to the penis, the experience of Dr Viel seems no doubt. For over 20 years he had practiced at the London Centre for Aesthetic Surgery and since 1991 has made 3000 the fat into the penis transplant surgery.

While it is not as popular as fat grafts to enlarge the breasts, fat grafting technique penoplasty with recognized quite popular. Currently, 50 percent of the services done Dr Viel is to enlarge the penis with a technique that takes only 90 minutes.

The results are quite satisfactory, because the size of the circumference of the penis after being given an average fat grafts can be increased up to 1 inch or about 2.54 cm. Does not always equal to everyone, once again depending on how much fat is reabsorbed by the body after injection.

inhibitors Orgasm

One of the things that become the benchmark of satisfaction in sex is able to reach orgasm, but unfortunately some people just can not reach it. Here it is the things that can hinder a person reaches orgasm.

Orgasm is the body's ability to receive and respond to the pleasure that the process takes place naturally and simply. Generally, women can achieve orgasms more than men.

Even so to be able to achieve orgasm is necessary that the mind calm and free of distractions. The following are things that can hinder a person reaches orgasm, as quoted from Health.com, Thursday (17/05/2012), namely:

1. Feel uncomfortable

Sex therapist Gloria Brame G, PhD said that once a person feels discomfort in his mind, sex drive will begin to fade, this condition makes a person lose the momentum to reach the climax.

2. Trying too hard to reach orgasm

The harder one tries to reach orgasm it will be difficult to get the climax. This is one form of anxiety that is usually not realized by many people. For that try a little more calm and think that this is an easy thing.

3. Too focused on achieving orgasm

A strong purpose to achieve orgasm will make people try hard to actually even do not produce anything. Should try to enjoy the fun without focusing on the orgasm, so that the body and mind become more relaxed which can help people achieve orgasm.

4. The brain is too busy and frantic

If the time to have sex a person is too busy thinking about many things it would be difficult to achieve orgasm. This is because the required concentration of brain and mind free from all disturbances.

5. Hate or have a problem with a partner

Hatred will shift your attention from the unpleasant sensations that make it difficult to have an orgasm. If indeed there is a problem, try to finish first. Speak to build intimacy thus more receptive to sexual connection.

Causes of Rape Hard Case Revealed

The increasing number of cases of sexual crimes was recently invited concerns. Ironically, not all sex crimes cases successfully brought to court because of lack of evidence. It often happens, the evidence is lost because the victim arrived late or negligence of medical personnel during the examination.

Forensic medical expert dr. Slamet Poernomo SPF states, in cases involving the human body, especially moral evil (rape), the search process, the collection and examination of the evidence becomes very important.

"The only thing that can help make light of sexual abuse cases is that we (medical examiner) who examined the victim the first time," said Slamet at the seminar The Role of Forensic Medicine in the Justice System, in the Hall of the Faculty of Medicine, University of Indonesia, Jakarta Tuesday Salemba, (15 / 5/2012).

Knowledge of biological evidence, whether the search, security, inspection, and analysis are very important to know by any physician. Because the errors in the collection and enforcement would undermine the findings given the biological findings will be easily damaged or degraded.

"It should be noted as well. To date we receive a lot of cases of sexual crimes can not be forwarded by the investigator because the evidence did not exist," he said.

Evidence on the victim's body

In the case of rape, the evidence found in the victim's body (the body inside and out), or clothing. That's because when a sexual crime occurs, the interface between the perpetrator and the victim not inevitable, that it must have a lot of that is in the body of the perpetrator is the victim's body, and vice versa.

Therefore, the search and collection of evidence, especially blood, semen and pubic hair becomes very important. The existence of this evidence to determine the occurrence of rape as well as find out the perpetrators of rape. But the barriers are, the evidence is easily lost when the victim arrived late or had a shower.

"They (victims) always comes more than two days. Most of them have a dilemma (hesitant to report). Yet in many parts of the victim's body of evidence from the perpetrator," he explained.

Even so, sometimes omissions are also often carried out by the examining physician. Therefore, the search should be extra careful. There are some specific techniques that must be considered by every doctor who examined the victim of rape, among others:

First, the victim should disrobe on a pedestal / paper width, so the evidence that falls can be accommodated on the base. Second, for taking the evidence in the body, such as the vagina, then use a cotton bud / swab. Similarly on the anal and oral cavity (no special KIT for taking of evidence). Third, for the blood and sperm are still wet can be taken with a pipette or a sterile gauze, while the dry can be used pincet or scraped.

How To Treat Patients Sex Therapist

In marriage, there are often conflicts that make the relationship stretched. The conflict is of course resulted in a room so that the intimate relationship that should be fun to be disturbed. In severe cases, sex and even have to be a victim. If this happens, you should see a sex therapist.

Because sex is a very personal thing, not many know what's going on in the consulting rooms of sex therapists. Nudity feels his name might make people think different things when called sex therapy.

Basically, sex therapy the same as other therapies in general, but focus on the problem you want solved is the sexual disorder. The essence of sex therapy is talk therapy.

"We were not allowed to touch the client and never thought to do so. There will never be the sex that occurs in the office of a sex therapist," says Megan Andelloux, sex therapist in Rhode Island as reported by WebMD, Tuesday (15/05/2012).

According Andelloux, most patients who come to his office due to differences in sexual desire, sexual function changes, the trauma of rape by men who are curious about his sexual fantasies.

"Most of my clients began to seek help for problems related to traditional therapy or marriage counselor. But sometimes these professionals may not know the various issues of sexuality, so it ultimately refers to a sex therapist," said Andelloux.

A wide range of therapies provided by the sex therapist vary according to the type of cases handled, so there's no telling moment of the most powerful way to address all patient complaints.

After identifying a partner attitudes about sex and sexual problems encountered, sex therapists recommend specific exercises to restore the focus of attention and expectations of the couple.

Apply the practice of sex therapy is often called 'sensate focus' for treating sexual problems.

The exercise begins by touching your partner without sexual intent and encourages both partners to reveal how both partners want to be touched.

The goal is to help both partners understand how to recognize and communicate their wishes.

Zimbabwe Women's Proposed No Baths For Prevent HIV

Limited understanding of a problem can come up with a controversial solution. As in Zimbabwe, one politician proposed a ban on bathing for women to be unattractive in the eyes of men that do not transmit HIV.

An online media in Zimbabwe reported that the senator catapult Morgan Femai proposal in a health seminar. Not enough to ban bath, Femai also suggested that women head to Zimbabwe membotaki increasingly unattractive.

Reportedly, the senator Femai catapult this proposal at the opening of parliament workshop on awareness of HIV (Human Imunnodeficiency Virus) was inspired by a certain sect of Christianity that requires women to membotaki head.

"I hope the government would require women to membotaki head as that of the Apostolic sect. They should also be prohibited from bathing because that is the root of all problems," said Femai as quoted from Dailymail, Tuesday (12/05/2012).

The senator believes the root of the problem of transmission of HIV are women. According to him, the moisture that is in the female body is more vulnerable than transmitting the deadly virus so that the male body for women's bathing ban will reduce the risk of infection.

"Women have a higher humidity than in the male organ, so it should be investigated how the anticipation of the highly preferred liquid bacteria. There must be ways to fight humidity," said the senator Femai.

News of this gets pretty scathing comments from readers since it is incompatible with scientific facts and tend to marginalize women. Most readers rate, this proposal may be a lack of understanding of the senator about HIV itself.

"More than 30 years of our independence and the most educated people all over Africa, we have a representative as serious is this? We're really in trouble," commented one reader, Chiranda Mukuru.

Many studies have proven that HIV can be transmitted through direct contact of body fluids such as various types of blood to the sperm. Contact on the skin surface will not transmit HIV to ban bathing judged unrelated to HIV transmission.

The number of bacteria in the vagina Can Go Down Up

The number of bacteria in a woman's pubic turns from time to time is never stable. The numbers fluctuate sometimes more, sometimes less depending on the acidity (pH) in the vagina.
Certain bacteria in the vagina does have good benefits for the health of your reproductive organs. However, as the development time, the bacteria can menigkat numbers and could lead to the growth of microbes in the vagina.
Many people think that the good bacteria in the vagina to protect against infection, especially bacteria of the genus Lactillus which produces lactic acid and maintain the pH of the vagina.
But few know that a specific bacterial community may have increased the population from time to time which can be dangerous.
Certain types of bacteria that population increases will cause the vaginal microbiome, but conditions are not the same in all women. There are some women who have vaginal bacterial populations are stable and exist in abundance.
"Changes in bacterial populations tend to coincide with the period of menstruation and sexual activity. Period of menstruation and sexual activity has been associated with changes in bacterial populations, but these factors are not always consistent in each of the women, other factors may be influential," said Jacques Ravel, PhD , of the University of Idaho as reported from medpagetoday, Monday (05/14/2012).
Ravel and several other co-investigators who use genomics technology to investigate the RNA sequence of vaginal bacteria and bacterial populations to see whether they might change or remain stable.
Research conducted on 32 healthy women with vaginal swab done more than 16 weeks of daily activities and make notes. Most women have five types of bacteria in the vagina and communities dominated by species of Lactobacillus crispatus, or iners gasseri.
"These factors need to be subject of further research in order to match better treatment strategies for women with bacterial vaginosis. This study not only can improve diagnostic accuracy, but also can offer a way to predict susceptibility and risk of infection," says Ravel.
More individualized treatment could be useful to prevent the development of vaginal bacteria, although antibiotics are also many works on some people.
"As long as the pH is balanced, there will be changes in the vaginal bacterial population so that the possible symptoms of minor infections," says Ravel.

the importance of sex education for children.

This article spoke on the importance of sex education of children. Cases of the more premarital sex. That's what we encountered with the team in providing counseling services in the office and after giving a seminar in various cities. Particularly in schools. What is wrong?

In addition indicates a problem within the family system, especially for adolescents, premarital sex showed poor information (education) is obtained through the child's parents. Of course, parents can not expect much if any information about sex is given when the child was a teenager; especially if they begin to recognize the opposite sex or dating.

Explanation or education about sexuality from an early age children should be given, ie, when the child begins to wonder about her. Do not be late dong!To that end, parents need to build a fun atmosphere for children to discuss. In addition to consciously use every opportunity to give an explanation, little by little, within the meaning of our children. When families eat together, watch TV or on the road with the kids to school.The role of fathersThe family is where children learn to be a husband, wife, and parents. One should learn a boy is to appreciate and respect women. Likewise, for our daughter. He should be able to carry themselves with courtesy and dignity, and not easily fall in premarital sexual relations.Parents should ensure that youth have a sense of "my self worth". Sense of self-worth is derived from feeling safe and loved is derived from a healthy bond with parents (self image), especially the father, which was built as a baby. In addition of course the spiritual experience (self concept). The children knew that he was so expensive or precious in the eyes of God and his parents.The boy is a duplicate of his father. Embedding the heroic qualities in the person of a boy starts with how a father behave towards their mother. Children of women who received enough love from their father, Umbar mengubar not easy to love any man in the vicinity. He had enough love and attention of the best men in her life today, namely his father.Psychological Science study found that the father is very big role in fostering a sense of keberhargaan in the child, whether male or female. Children who ignored his father had an emotional block three times more than those who lack a mother's love. No wonder the Bible is full of God's word and guidance for fathers. God gave a big role in a father in the family.When our children are teenagers (between 10-11 years old), as my father had planted the importance of honoring mothers and appreciating women. We also train the children to learn to appreciate each other in marriage through the relation between the two of us as a father and their mother. We want to affirm the values ​​that we have to say to them. We hope, as men, our sons understand the complexity of a woman, wife and mother. My father also played an important role in Shaping Character Daughter SexPremarital sexual relationsWhy is a pregnancy outside of marriage? One of these is the indiscriminate attitude shown towards opposite sex, both men and women. Therefore, it is better young men understand the psychological effect would be experienced by her boyfriend when they do things forbidden. Son of man must learn to control their sexual hormones. While girls aware of the consequences of early sexual relations, including those occurring outside of marriage. Thus it take to fortify their knowledge.Three years ago, we talked about this with our children one morning. They were eating breakfast. At that time her mother's hands there is a daily children's COMPASS. Content of the news about some high school students who did not participate UASBN. In one small town alone account for 16 people. The cause is pregnancy out of wedlock."If sexual intercourse outside of marriage, no commitment and responsibility in it," said the wife. "It's arbitrary behavior. Hence God to protect women and men in marriage. People who are ready to get married will have responsibilities and commitments. We've got you, two teenage boys. You're smart, handsome, and fun. You do not apply at random on a female friend. Mama you are female, you know! "Said local time."Ah, my girlfriends all the naughty!" Moze said that while it was 11 years old. He took the plate and his glass to the kitchen."I'd like Ngata-ngatain, 'said his brother was 15 years old. We also laughing, shouting "Come on do not be late for school!"Although we seem to talk about this in passing, we want to use every moment of our lives to share the important things about the wedding on our children. They can not possibly understand it only in a single conversation. Necessary repetitions, until they make a living value.Another thing that needs to be understood by young people associated with premarital sex is a danger of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Most teenage girls worry about aspects of her pregnancy. In fact, this is more dangerous. Some diseases are not immediately visible.Someone takes 15-20 years to get caught, and if during that time the patient had sex with different partners, she has infected all sexual partners. After finally youth and adolescents is becoming a good marriage, it turns out the couple can not have children. Could be, it is due to premarital sexual relations he had done as a teenager.Outside of marriage, men, after the seed implant in the womb of woman, can not be held responsible. They may go away. If a pregnancy is usually the women who noisily demanded marriage. But forced marriages like this, generally does not end well.Women (perhaps also her partner) would feel guilty. If she is pregnant, she should keep her fetus (aborted if he can be sued to kill), then she gave birth with pain. He is also caring for her baby or give her child adopted. Imagine if no one was with her husband. Especially if you have to give birth in a shelter, because parents can not accept her pregnancy. What a miserable and suffering from this situation!If you alreadyFamilies need to develop a flexible attitude (adaptability) and forgiveness. This attitude is needed in dealing with various problems that may not previously suspected. As a system, there seemed to be fixed in a family that cause our children to fall in premarital sex. Parents also need to look at the role (contribution to) them in the event.No teenagers or young men who do not feel guilty after having sex before marriage. Maybe they need advice, but more than that, they need acceptance and understanding parents. We propose that the openness of the family there is help for this couple.Weddings are performed solely because of embarrassment or to avoid shame, is not always a good way out. Guilt requires parental forgiveness. Then if they intend to marry, premarital counseling needs to be lived in the right way.May be useful